Sometimes we lose sight of what is really important because we think loving someone is the sole reason to be in a relationship, but it's not. There are values that I think are just as important, if not more important, as love for any relationship to work.

I believe that the top 10 values are, communication, compromise, happiness, honesty, independence, loyalty, partnership, respect, safety and trust. Obviously, things such as collaboration and teamwork are important to the establishment of partnership and care and empathy may be needed to establish compromise, but most of these other values can be classified under each of the top 10 headings.

To be in harmony, a good relationship requires all of these things. But being in harmony does not mean that one person must lose their own identity or independence. Harmony in music does not come from two same instruments playing the exact same notes in the exact same key and with the same rhythm - neither does harmony in a good and strong relationship.

So just as great symphonies are composed to bring passion, wonder and joy, so can your life and your most important relationship.

A great symphony cannot be composed without knowing the full capabilities of each instrument and how it can bring out the best in itself and the other instruments around it.

Therefore the first stage of the Our Life in Harmony™  program and associated coaching will allow you both to first look at yourself as individuals, to know your own strengths, establish your dreams and everything that you want out of life. Each partner receives and completes the full My Life in Harmony™  program to achieve this.

"The success of marriage comes not in finding the 'right' person, but in the ability of both partners to adjust to the real person they inevitably realize they married." ~John Fischer.

The second and extremely important stage is the inclusion of the Our Relationship in Harmony™  program (only available separately if both partners have completed the My Life in Harmony™ program).

Researchers have consistently identified communication as an integral part of a maintaining a healthy relationship.

An important aspect of healthy communication is that each partner communicates that they care what the other person thinks and feels. So often in relationships, this is the point at which things can fall down.

Collaboration and teamwork are another important aspect of maintaining a healthy relationship, knowing that you are on each other's side. Each partner needs to be able to listen to and hold the other person in mind, in order to be able to compromise and move forward.

Knowing what each party brings into a relationship and being able to own and acknowledge this, can often provide a basis from which a couple can grow and improve together.

The Our Relationship in Harmony™  program is designed to facilitate this communication, collaboration and teamwork and create the happy and fulfilled life and relationship that you both desire together.

To find out more and explore all of the possibilities, why not arrange a totally obligation free 15 minute 'Uncover' session with me now here?